Warning signs that a child may be suffering sexual abuse

1. Sudden refusal to go home after school or sudden refusal to communicate with a caregiver.
2. Bruises, abrasions and burns, which could be a sign of physical abuse.
3. Sudden absenteeism from school.
4. Gradual regression from social and class activities.
5. Dip in academic performance.
6. Any sudden change in behaviour - like a child who had previously been happy and active suddenly becoming quiet, depressed or unduly angry.
7. Loss of appetite or difficulty sleeping or performing routine chores.
8. Behaviour that is inappropriate to the child's age - like if she suddenly starts narrating 'sex stories' to peers.

How to react if you suspect abuse

1. Do not appear shocked or incredulous, or scold the child.
2. Reassure the child that he or she is safe with you and can talk to you.
3. Do not ask leading questions.

Suspect potential child abuse? Call the Ministry of Community Development, Youth and Sports Child Protection Service Helpline 1800-258-6378 during office hours, or a Neighbourhood Police Post after office hours.

This article was first published in The Straits Times.